That's what Korrin told me when she was planning to give one to Araceli and what Metaari told Merrick.

[After a pause.] I teased Merrick by telling him he was basically Qunari married now, but I know that's not completely accurate. [He offers a smile there, trying to keep this conversation light.]

The thing is, neither Korrin or Metaari were raised under the Qun. They both had parents who left and formed a family. The idea of marriage and love aren't foreign to them.

It's different for you, isn't it?